As I remember the helo with the doctor(s?) from the carrier arrived at about the same time as the Cochrane's boat was being hoisted back aboard. The vision of the carrier's (I think it was the Big "E") medical people and our own corpsmen working on the pilot, still in the boat hanging from the davits, is very vivid in my mind. I was and still am very impressed with their effort to save someone that was un-savable. No one uttered a word except those working on the pilot. True professionals.
The pilot, another guy, just like us, just doing his job, who didn't get to go home like the rest of us. We all need to remember him and the other 50,000+ plus guys who didn't get to go home.